Monday, February 4, 2008
This isn't a melancholic or a funny post, instead a thing that I had on my mind a while ago. To be honest, I guess alot of my friends have went through these stages and yet I've not. The pure feeling that one would treasure the most, I supposed. As in our daily life, we could utterly control most of our desire. If you want money, you could go get a job. You want knowledge, you could go learn or study something. But what about love?
Yes yes. Isn't it obvious? Love is so unpredictable and uncontrolable. In the initial stage, love is no other than just a one sided love. More accurately known as crush, one would most probabbly hide these fragile passions and remain dormant. Its hard to tell he or she had a crush on someone. Especially boys, they tend to be less sensitive to notice that a girl had a crush on them unless they are told so. Next, courtship proceed and if it suceed, vows would be made together. A new love is born at that moment.
Unfortunately, its not always the same story on the opposite side. Most of the time, there will be one who will be giving more. At the end, he/she might ask "why doesnt he/she cares about me?" or maybe "why did he/she do that to me?". Subsequently, tears broke out and oftenly in public. Time is the best healer, enable the person to forget everything bit by bit.
Once bitten twice shy? Nahh.. I don't think most of us are applied to this outdated term. As things are 77 88 recovered, most rasionally is to go find it again to obtain that ultimate feelings back. But heck, don't always just bang your head onto the wall repeatedly. Try to get some moral values before you advance for the next try. Somehow love is similar to a learning process, kan...?
5:02 PM
